The long-term evolution of my healthy self-sufficiency (Whew! That's a mouthful!)

"...[T]his is a critical moment in the long-term evolution of  your healthy self-sufficiency. For both your own sake and the sake of the people you love, you must find a way to shrink your urge to make them responsible for your well-being." --Rob Brezsny from my Free Will Astrology horoscope for this week